(originally written & published on February 16, 2013)
As April is fast approaching, and Autism Awareness Day &
Month & the “Light It Up Blue” Autism Speaks campaign are right
around the corner, I felt compelled to say something in defense of Autism
Speaks.
First off, I will readily admit that I’m not always a huge
fan of everything Autism Speaks. I wrote
a post last April about supporting smaller, more local autism charities. You can read that
HERE. But in that post I did write this…
“…I know there’s always a lot of controversy around Autism
Speaks … but I have no issues with AS with the way they portray autism. Others
in the Asperger’s community feel that AS doesn’t represent them, and maybe it
doesn’t. But it does seem to represent those with severe debilitating autism.
My son has SEVERE autism…”
But I’m getting off track.
That’s not the reason I’m writing today
The reason? Because
every March/April the whole anti-Autism Speaks thing comes up again…and a big
reason people bash AS is because they
say their executives make too much money or they spend too much money on
parties and events.
Mark Roithmayer, President – Salary: $400,413
Peter Bell, Executive Vice President – Salary: $265,981
I’m here to say it loud & proud…the whole “their
executives salaries are too high” argument is just plain silly…
I have friends who work in the nonprofit world and every big
nonprofit gets this bad wrap… but you know what? You gotta spend money to
make money…
If you want the best, most competent, experienced ceo &
executives to take your organization really far you need to pay for them… And these
salaries are the going rate for these types of executives in NYC.
Also, if you want to fundraise on a big scale, you gotta
throw parties… that’s just how it works.
I raised $$ for the Michael J Fox Parkinson’s
Foundation last year and it is the same way… Their execs make big bucks!
And I
raised just over $3000 and I’m invited to a lavish “awards dinner” in
April….
Too much, too extravagant?
Maybe. That was my first
instinct… but I gotta admit that I’m excited to go. And I’m sure the hope of the party is
probably to bring in some more corporate big bucks donors… So the party will
more than pay for itself.
And on a national scale, just like Autism Speaks, the Michael
J Fox Parkinson’s Foundation is doing a lot of good…
Maybe on paper maybe the percentage of every $ that gets
spent on autism or Parkinson’s is smaller than you’d like? I get it… but they
are doing this on a MASSIVE scale with millions of dollars in play… And on a national level they do a lot of
good…
So, back to Autism Speaks.
Hate them for other reasons if you want.
You feel that they put too much money into research. I get it. You’re kid has aspergers and you don’t like
the way they portray autism. I get it. (I don’t agree, but I get it) 🙂 You don’t think they don’t do enough in your
local community. I get it.
But the high salaries and the extravagant parties? That’s just the cost of doing business on
such a massive scale.
That is all. I will
get off my soapbox now and prepare to be torn apart by y’all…
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i think you need a bigger soapbox. *cackle*.......cause as far as I'm concerned, only parents who have to deal with bodily fluid issues......MASSIVE DEFICITS in communication.....parents who honestly can say the future scares them to death can preach....
i've been in this autism game for 13 years and i can only count on one hand that I have been lucky enough to benefit from "agencies".......we literally have had to put on our game face and fight each battle.....mabye something like bonnie and clyde? (lmfao)..........
when these executives can life a day in my shoes....then mabye i can give their manifesto a chance......
ok, done with my rant.....now for a cup of coffee.....aloha from hawaii. :)
Aloha from Kailua--do you live in Hawaii, too?
yes, i live in wahiawa, used to live in lanikai with my parents........ :)
My issue with AS is that as far as I could tell, they do NOT have anyone on the Autism Spectrum in any position of leadership.
You might enjoy this interview I did a few months ago with Temple Grandin's Mother: http://ipaimpress.com/eustacia-cutler/
I knew there was opposition to the Autism Speaks but I wasn't quite sure why. I read somewhere some autistic ppl weren't comfortable with the logo a puzzle piece. But, I knew it went deeper then that. My daughter is 3 in half years with severe autism and nonverbal. I know I am new to all this, but I am thankful for all the people who have devoted thier life to put a spot light on Autism. And that means you Autism Daddy! I feel blessed my daugther was born in an era where I'm not considered a "Refrigerator Mother" I don't believe my low self esteem could handled that stigma. I applaud both sides for educating people about Autism. Too bad they can't join together, just think of all they could accomplished. But, what do I know :)
I agree!!!!
I dont light it up blue for Autism Speaks, I light it up blue for my son and everyone dealing with Autism. I have the same thoughts as you regarding them. April is Autism Awareness Month not Autism Speaks month.
PREACH!
j George, how arrogant! Only the parents of the severely autistic can preach? Sad. It's just like "mommy wars" in autism land, one parent after another berating each other because their situation is worse. Sickening. There is very little support because of this stupid game. I have 4 kids, both of my boys are on the spectrum, one is an Aspie one is severe. Neither have an easy battle....I couldn't in a million years tell another parent they have no place to preach. Everyone is affected in their own way. I'm all for Autism Speaks, at a minimum their awareness campaign has done wonders. That's enough for me. The execs are doing their jobs well, let'em be paid- autism isn't so scary of a word to society anymore- they must be doing something right.
there's my rant. Thanks AD
Amen! Awareness!
i am the way i am because for YEARS my cries for help have been met with closed doors, deaf ears, and turned backs. it is literally HURTFUL to hear parents who miss the little miracles that their children do everyday, normal or autistic. i am the way i am because of stares and snide remarks in public. i am the way i am because "educated people" have told me to give up on my child at the age of 9. I have had administration tell me "oh the bus has to pick him up in the morning late because he is not priority".........my rant can go on and on, but i only say what i say because after my soul cries for years looking for help, and being rejected, a mother's shell toughens up like armor.
Never do I complain about the degree of autism a child has, but it is just jealousy that I have for high functioning autism families, I wish I could celebrate the abilities that they have.
Every family, regardless of severity, has honest concerns and fears.......don't we all? :(
Agreed!!
If it's blue for autism and people can identify it as hey that's blue for autism and they're lighting it up - good. I light up blue for my son. So sorry your organization didn't come up with something to honor my amazing child.
I agree with you completely. To add my own soapbox portion...to make awareness you need to make wave and you need to portray the worst. In other words, the worse something seems the more money you make. That sounds horrible I know, but its true. My son has Asperger's and at his therapy center, I HAVE had parents tell me that I have it easier because at least my son can talk. That is true, he can, but he still has his struggles. Truth is, I don't know the anything else and neither do they. Truth is, united we stand. Truth is, whatever we can do to raise money, do research, support each other, and be the best parents we can be is something I will support. I believe Autism Speaks does do that, and I am behind them and their cause.
As an adult with autism, I don't like them because of their negative ad campaigns. Yes, it may help to bring in the bucks, but I have to fight every day just to remind people that I DO have issues and when they do appear, it's not because I'm crazy, in need of attention, or because of whatever reason. I don't need all the negativity dumped on top of me. Yes, I may never be a famous ball player and it's becoming more obvious by the day that I'll never date or whatever (work and my health take up all my time - and trying to explain to some dude about autism only to be given a "But you LOOK normal!" isn't worth the expended energy), but you know what? I AM somebody that isn't a tragedy. I'm may be a statistic, but they're probably not including adults and I AM HERE! Life isn't perfect and I will die eventually, but not from autism. That's why I don't like Autism Speaks :-) I respect them on some levels, but, as an adult, they also make me cringe.
AD- have you subscibed to Karla Fisher, on Karla's autism page(Facebook)? She is an autistic autism advocate who explains why she thinks Autism Speak's message is harmful to autistics. You really get a different viewpoint from the autistic, instead of just a parent perspective. She has offered her services on the board of AS, but instead they told her to organize a walk.
I disagree with most of your post but I genuinely applaud you for speaking out for what you believe and approaching the topic rationally. :)
I went to a meeting where several of the studies that were presented had been funded by Autism Speaks. They were useful and applicable to me as a mom of a diverse population of 3 boys who span the spectrum. I felt that my views of AS had brightened somewhat based on that.
In our life with Autism (I say "our" because around here it is the whole family not just my son nor my "battle") I have found that the miracles we have - my son now speaks finally potty trained mostly (by age 9) I count the blessings - they may not have come because of Autism Speaks - and personally I knew about autism from a movie "a SonRise" that I saw when I was just a child myself.
I agree with the you have to spend to make ... even if many think it can be done on "air" alone - you have to pay to get people who wil donate together, you have to provide a platform even if it doesnt cover everyone - at least the umbrella is open and can be seen.
I have my issues with Autism Speaks, but at the same time - the fact that they get the word out - positive or negative - PEOPLE (not just AS parents/families) are talking and researching information online to find out more - and they are donating to research which my son may not need but another autistic child may benefit greatly from. WE need MORE organizations that address every aspect of Autism... but if we tried to have one that met the circumstances of each child with autism and/the obstacles facing their families - we would have too many... as it has been put so well before - you meet one child/family with autism you have met one child/family with autism... we as a community are as diverse as any neighborhood /county/state we are all immersed in the AS WORLD each different but each the "same" in so many ways.
I don't begrudge the salaries - if I had the resources to pay for the best I would gladly do it - be it an engineer to build, a doctor to heal, a contractor to construct or a "board member" to get things done.
Could they do more to show the broader differences? probably.Could they do more to represent Aspies, or adults with AS? Probably. Because they are out there - there is awareness that was NOT around ten, fifteen, twenty years ago. Because they started the conversations - we can debate and argue and ask for more not just for our kids but to help us as families... No all the doors are not open yet, No all the pieces are still not fit together, but at least its a start.
ok maybe its a bit scattered but hope someone gets it. - rant done... Thank you AD for speaking up and speaking out. Rant on ;)